One of the Hardest Spelling Challenges…
Sometimes there is a word so juicy and useful, you want to use it all the time in your writing — the only problem is, it’s a beast to spell… so you’re inclined to just avoid it altogether. One such commonly confused word is: DILEMMA. Ways I’ve spelled it wrong include: dillema, dillemma, delema, dielema, dialmama, dilemna, dulemuh, dalemma, dilemuh, dylemma, and so many more mistakes!
Indeed, it becomes a dilemma whether or not to use the word “dilemma” in a sentence at all, since it makes even the most masterful English user freak out. Never fear, however — help is on the way! What follows is a trick to easily remember how to spell dilemma for the rest of your life.

The Definition and Meaning of Dilemma
Before we learn to spell dilemma, let’s remember what this word means. The easiest definition of dilemma is: a tricky situation where you’re stuck between two options — both of which pose problems. A synonym for dilemma would be: a tough choice. The pronunciation is: “duh-LEH-muh.”
Examples of Dilemmas…
Dilemma Example 1:
It was a moral dilemma for Mitzi to decide whether or not she should tell her husband that she’d already watched The Social Dilemma movie without him — even after he’d told her not to. If she revealed the truth to him, he’d be upset, but if she hid it, she would be ravaged by guilt.
Dilemma Example 2:
After reading the book, The Omnivore’s Dilemma, it became an ethical dilemma for Frank to decide whether or not he should stop eating four burgers and drinking fifteen large lattes every day. If he quit coffee and red meat, his friend Pat’s restaurant and cafe might go out of business, but if Frank continued his unbalanced consumption, he could face long-term health problems.

How to Spell Dilemma
Now that we know what it means, let’s learn the trick to remembering how to spell “dilemma!” We will use a mnemonic device — a memory aid — to cement the letters in our mind.
Begin with “DIL.” In your mind, remember the words: “Do it Like,” which form the initials: “D. I. L.” Then imagine a person — or cute dog — named “Emma!” What mnemonic phrase results? “Do it Like Emma!” Put together, the initials of the first three words (DIL) plus the name (EMMA) equal: DILEMMA. Here’s a cartoon representation of this spelling lesson and memory trick:

Can You Spell Dilemma Now?
Did that mnemonic device work for teaching you how to spell “dilemma?” Aww, I hope so! If you enjoyed that memory trick, check out the even weirder advice I have on how to spell onomatopoeia — another fabulous and useful word which many shy away from writing because of its difficulty.
VIDEO: How to Spell Dilemma
More Fun English Lessons:
If you enjoyed this lesson, you’re in luck! Here are a bunch more English lessons which put the “arts” (and joy) into English Language Arts learning. Feel free to leave a comment requesting any lesson I haven’t done yet! I love drawing and writing them to help people around the world.
- Figurative Language
- Common Homophones
- Tone vs. Mood
- Metacognitive Strategies
- Juxtaposition Examples
- Liminal Space
- Chakra Colors (ok, it’s not an ELA lesson, but it’s cool)
- What is Foreshadowing and Context?
- Whose vs. Who’s and Passed vs. Past

The author and artist, Lillie Marshall, is a National Board Certified Teacher of English and mother of two who has been a public school educator since 2003. All art on this site is original and hand-drawn by Lillie. She launched DrawingsOf.com Educational Cartoons in 2020, building upon the success of her other two sites, AroundTheWorldL.com (established 2009) and TeachingTraveling.com (founded 2010). Subscribe to Lillie’s monthly newsletter, and follow @WorldLillie on social media to stay connected!