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A Teacher Explains the OTHER Education

Once there was a teacher who was preparing to welcome a set of wonderful students just like you. She knew this year would be different than any year before in her decade and a half in education, but with these differences could come new opportunities.

A happy teacher welcome.
A happy teacher welcome.

“Wow,” she mused, “my job is to teach English, but that’s not the only reason school matters.”

“Huh?” asked her young son. “If education isn’t just about reading and writing, why IS school important? What ARE you supposed to be teaching besides English?”

The teacher gave her son a snuggle with arms like an octopus and explained, “Especially in challenging times, a teacher’s job is to provide a community to support perseverance, optimism, well-being, and respect.”

Her son ate some veggies thoughtfully, then stated: “I don’t know what most of those words mean.”

Teaching perseverance.
A good education teaches us how to push through challenges.

Teaching Perseverance

“Perseverance is not giving up,” explained the teacher to her son. “When school is done right, students can practice trying, not getting things perfect the first time, trying again with new strategies, and improving over time.

“Through the microcosm of getting better at English, Math, or Art through effort, kids can begin to see that hard work pays off. There are ways to get support to improve instead of giving up during that liminal, in-between time. The job of a good educator is to foster this perseverance by teaching metacognitive strategies for boosting effectiveness.”

Teaching optimism
Educators can model making the best of difficulties.

Teaching Optimism

“The next thing educators need to cultivate,” continued the teacher, “is a sense of possibility and hope, even when times are hard.”

“That’s optimism?” asked her son, making a crown out of flowers.

“Correct!” exclaimed the teacher, tossing her son’s stuffed whale toy in the air with glee. “Learning needs hope. We can only take in new information if there’s a feeling we can USE it to make our lives — and this world — better.

“So even, for example, even if entire districts are doing distance learning and school buildings are closed, a teacher can help illuminate the silver linings of a challenging year –“

“– like being able to sleep a little later in the morning!” yelled the teacher’s son. “Or shy students getting more of a chance to write back and forth with their teachers instead of anxiously worrying about the mad rush of kids yelling in the classroom.”

“Exactly. As teachers, we need to acknowledge hard times and their profoundly difficult impacts on people, but we also can be pillars of hope and optimism, and teach how to find opportunity and innovation, in the context of things going awry.”

Teaching self-care and respect.
We must care for ourselves to care for others.

Teaching Well-Being and Respect

“So what is well-being then?” asked the teacher’s son. “Sorry I don’t know all these words.”

“No need to say sorry,” said the teacher. “We’re all always learning, and we need to be compassionate and caring with ourselves. That’s part of well-being. Creating well-being means learning to take care of yourself — physically, mentally, and emotionally — so you can live your best life… and have the strength to make the lives of others better, too.”

The teacher’s son nodded, and the teacher continued.

“Of course, a teacher’s job is to guide others to treat each other with respect, and the first step in having the strength of heart to do that is respecting and loving OURSELVES.”

“Sounds good,” said her son. “I’m going to take care of myself now by playing outside!”

The teacher smiled and opened her school computer, which was juxtaposed next to a pile of laundry. As she watched her son playing through the window, she thought: “May this productive conversation foreshadow a surprisingly great, innovative, and illuminating year for all of us!”

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What Can Teachers Do to Make YOU Happy This Year?

So what do YOU think, dear reader? In an unprecedented and disorienting year — or in any year for that matter — what should educators do to make school a useful, nourishing, creative place, no matter what form it takes?

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Denise Williams

Friday 21st of May 2021

Perfectly written and much needed. I was just talking with my students about enhancing and promoting resiliency. We really need more educators like you!

Lillie Marshall

Friday 21st of May 2021

Aww, and you too!!!

Soheila Hakimi

Monday 5th of October 2020

Thank you for creating this. We need to teach the importance of self care and self belief to kids. I don't think we talk about feelings and the importance of prosessing emotions enough.

Lillie Marshall

Monday 5th of October 2020

So true!


Wednesday 30th of September 2020

I really enjoyed this blog post! So much positivity, and a different way to look at things. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

Lillie Marshall

Wednesday 30th of September 2020

Thanks, Biana!


Tuesday 29th of September 2020

Wow! I love your article. It is so well written and the need of the hour. Good teachers like you are the need of the hour!

Lillie Marshall

Tuesday 29th of September 2020

Thank you, Archana!

Michelle Frank | Flipped-Out Food

Tuesday 29th of September 2020

With my son in the next room talking to his classmates and teacher online, this post particularly resonates with me. These are all so important—thank you for the reminder of the other important aspects of teaching!

Lillie Marshall

Tuesday 29th of September 2020

Sing it from the rooftops!